Jeremiah's Tavern

Wedding Rehearsal & Dinner

The Ballroom at Carey Lake

Wedding Day

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Cocktail Hour

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Burke Wedding

On March 29th, 2019, in Webster, NY, at a local gym where fate quietly worked its magic. For three days in a row, a hardworking pool boy and a full-time blonde waitress unknowingly parked their vehicles side-by-side. His rugged work truck. Her fire-red Jeep Wrangler. It may have looked like coincidence, but it was God's gentle nudge, weaving our paths together. On the third day, after separate workouts, they happened to walk out at the same time... and everything changed. A casual conversation sparked between them. They exchanged names, shared a moment, and from that day on, something deeper began to grow. The very next day, they met for their first date at Jeremiah’s Tavern. Joe was intense - unfiltered, driven, and unapologetically himself. Jessica, sweet and slightly guarded, couldn't help falling for his voice, his grit, his magnetism, and his unwavering work ethic, and of course - good looks. From that moment on, they were inseparable. Constant texts and calls turned into gym sessions, last-minute dinner dates, bonfires, motorcycle rides, boat nights on the water, off-roading adventures, road trips to the Adirondacks, and quiet moments spent fixing up trucks and talking about life. Even when busy work schedules pulled them in separate directions, they stayed deeply connected—sometimes with more than 10 phone calls a day just to hear each other's voice and stay close. Dating Joe came with its own pace. He drives through life the way he drives his truck—fast, focused, and full of fuel. Jessica never asked him to slow down, not even when he treated every vehicle like it was built for the racetrack. She knew that was simply how he chased purpose—and she loved him for it. She simply hoped for time together wherever it could fit and Joe made sure she felt chosen, every time. Time together wasn't always plentiful—but it was intentional, cherished, and never taken for granted. On August 13th, 2021, Joe dropped to one knee and asked Jessica to be his wife. She was so stunned—but then gave the clearest, most heartfelt yes of her life. Not long after, life took an unexpected turn. Jessica’s nursing path was rerouted due to restrictions. The change was frustrating at first, but over time, it became clear that something greater was unfolding- God had better plans—one that brought Jessica into Joe’s business, into a new partnership, and calling they didn't see coming.&nbsp;In 2022, Jessica had joined Joe’s pool and excavation business as a full-time office manager, and a whole new chapter began. Their partnership grew deeper and stronger overtime. They learned how to lean into each other’s strengths—how to build something lasting, both professionally and personally. Where one struggles, the other shows up. Where one dreams, the other builds. Side by side, they rise and fall together as a team. On June 23rd, 2023, Jessica lost her beloved mother. Just a few months later, on September 12th, Joe lost his devoted father. Those losses shaped their hearts in new ways, deepened their connection, and reminded them what it means to carry love forward. Their parents live on in everything they build and every promise they keep. Together, they’ve survived long working hours and seasons, the challenges of nursing school, bodybuilding competition prep, deep loss of their parents, the steep climb of entrepreneurship, and long 4-year engagement! And through it all, they've built a bond rooted in loyalty, laughter, and unwavering love. When Joe feels the weight of the world, Jessica is there to help him exhale. When Jessica needs clarity, Joe brings perspective grounded in truth, and experience. Today, they live in Nashville, TN, alongside their two dogs—Remi (Daddy’s little angel) and Brody (the lovable "crackhead")—Jessica became the calm after Joe’s long, demanding days. They work together in real estate investments, flips and rentals. Joe still travels to Rochester for work, but their love doesn’t waver. They’ve learned that no matter where they are, they are each other’s person— best friends in life. And now, FINALLY, after every twist, turn, and mile traveled together, we're finally arriving at the most meaningful finish line of all—forever. This isn’t just a celebration of our love; it’s the final lap before we take on life side by side, hand in hand, as husband and wife.From Webster to Nashville, from late-night calls to sunrise boat rides, from building dreams to holding each other through loss—we’ve raced through it all. Not for speed, but for purpose. Not for trophies, but for truth.And on Saturday, November 15th, 2025, we cross that line—two souls, one story, and a lifetime ahead. Thank you all for being part of our race to love.Buckle up.The best ride has only just begun. 🧡

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Jessica Lauren Privitera

Joseph Micheal Burke

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For Your Travel Ease: We’re so grateful you’ll be joining us to celebrate this special chapter. To make your travel planning a little smoother, we’ve kindly reserved a block of rooms at The Courtyard Rochester/East Penfield Marriott Hotel. Whether you're coming from near or far, we hope this helps you feel relaxed and welcomed. We recommend reserving early to ensure availability.We can’t wait to celebrate with you! With love and gratitude,Jessica &amp; Joe _______________________________________ Privitera / Burke Wedding Room Block CODE: PRIVITERA-BURKE WEDD Last Day to Book:&nbsp;Tuesday, October 14, 2025 17-minute (9.0 miles) Commute to Wedding Venue.

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Burke Wedding: Terms & Conitions

Dear friends and family,We’re so excited to celebrate this beautiful chapter with you. To help everything run smoothly and ensure everyone feels safe, respected, and cared for, we kindly ask that you keep the following in mind. By accessing this site and submitting your RSVP, guests agree to the following terms and conditions: I. Assumption of Risk &amp; Indemnification.By attending, you’re doing so at your own discretion. We’ve taken great care to create a joyful and safe space, and we trust you’ll look after yourself and others with the same care.Guests voluntarily assume all risks associated with attending the wedding celebration. This includes, but is not limited to, personal injury, illness, property damage, or loss. Guests agree to indemnify, defend, and hold harmless the bride and groom, their families, the venue, and affiliated vendors from any claims or legal actions arising from participation in the event. II. Dietary Restrictions &amp; Allergies.If you have any dietary restrictions or allergies, please let us know when you RSVP. We’ll do our best to accommodate, but we need your help to plan ahead. Guests are responsible for notifying the couple of any dietary restrictions or allergies at the time of RSVP. While reasonable efforts will be made to accommodate requests, the couple and venue assume no liability for uncommunicated or unmanageable dietary needs. III. Photography &amp; Media Consent.Guests consent to being photographed and/or recorded during the event and grant the couple and their representatives the right to use such media for personal, social, or commemorative purposes. Note: Our ceremony will be unplugged—no phones, cameras, or recording devices, please. We want everyone to be fully present as we exchange our vows. Don’t worry, our photographers will capture it all beautifully! IV. Guest Conduct &amp; Responsibilities.Celebrate with Grace. Please treat everyone—guests, staff, and vendors—with kindness. Drink responsibly, enjoy the night, and make sure you’ve arranged safe transportation to and from the venue.The celebration ends at 11:00 PM, and we kindly ask that you take all personal belongings with you when you leave. Guests agree to:Treat all individuals, including staff and vendors, with respectDrink responsibly and avoid disruptive behaviorArrange and fund their own transportation to and from the venueDepart by the official venue closure time of 11:00 PMKeep track of personal belongings; the couple, venue, and vendors are not responsible for items left behind V. Defamation &amp; Public Commentary.Speak &amp; share love. To honor the spirit of this celebration, we kindly ask all guests to refrain from making or sharing any false, misleading, or harmful statements—whether spoken, written, or posted online—about the couple, their families, vendors, or the event itself. This includes but is not limited to public comments, social media posts, or reviews that could damage reputations or misrepresent the experience.We believe in transparency, grace, and good faith. This day is a demonstration of our commitment to love with each other and Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior. If you have concerns or feedback, we welcome direct communication so that any issues can be addressed respectfully and privately.By attending, you agree to uphold this standard of integrity and kindness. Let’s keep the focus on love, laughter, and the joy of being together. This day means the world to us, and we hope it will be a positive and joyful memory for us all. VI. RSVP Agreement.Please RSVP by October 1st, 2025.If your plans change within 30 days of the wedding, let us know by calling or texting the Bride, Jessica at (585) 260-5336.Your thoughtfulness helps us make sure everything runs smoothly. By submitting an RSVP, guests confirm:Their intent to attend.Acceptance of these Terms &amp; Conditions.Communication of any dietary needs.Agreement to notify the couple of any change in attendance within 30 days of the event.RSVP deadline is October 1st, 2025, changes to RSVP are accepted no later than October 15th, 2025. VII. Amendments.These Terms &amp; Conditions are subject to change. Updates will be posted on this page. Thank you for being part of this moment. Your presence means the world to us. With love,Jessica &amp; Joseph

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Jessica & Joseph

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Wedding Day

5:00 PM–5:30 PM

Wedding Ceremony

5:30 PM–6:30 PM

Cocktail Hour

6:30 PM–11:00 PM

Dinner & Reception